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Right, Sunday lunch. You are sitting at your partner's family table. The potatoes are
steaming, the gravy is passed, and then it happens. Your schoonvader says something about
nitrogen policy or housing or farmers blocking the A12, and you have opinions. Strong ones
may be better informed than his, honestly, but here is the thing. You do not have the vocabulary
yet. And this is not your kitchen table. This is his. I have watched so many expat partners stumble